A Letter to Want-To-Be Fathers, Soon-To-Be Fathers and Fathers by JAK guest blogger, Toby Mueller, of Raymond Happy Father's Day to you: To you want-to-be fathers: Are you sure you want to be a father? Are you ready for the toughest job you will ever have? Are you ready for more responsibility than you have ever had? I have to be honest with you: Some of you will fail. Just look at the number of kids living without a dad in their life. There is one word that you will need to live out, if you are to be an effective dad: COMMITMENT. Read More... Commit to your responsibility as a father, as a husband and as a member of a community (church, school or peers). Commit to the fact that you can’t be a good father on your own . You will need help. You will need an example to follow. God, other dads you admire or even your own dad. Pick a mentor and dive into them . Ask questions, get feed back and humble yourself if you are serious about wanting to become a father. Now you soon-to-...