I'll Have An Order of Whine, Please Just Add Kids welcomes Toby Mueller, a Raymond dad, as JAK's guest blogger I was out a local store this past week with my youngest daughter. My oldest has just started school so I was enjoying the 50% reduction in my tolerance and alertness for certain attitudes when both of the girls are together. It is much eaisier to contain one rather than two. My daughter was being quite loud and talkative for such an early hour (it was about 8:30) and clerk at the checkout noticed. Now, I do not know this person or what type of parent she is, but she made a comment that made me think. A lot! Read More.. .I said to my daughter, with clerk overhearing, something like, "Wow, for getting up just a short time ago, you are really loud." The clerk then said, "My kids were like that too and I don't miss that at all." Now, at first, that may not seem like a big deal. But, if you are honest with yourself and think about it, it is a big dea...