Cave Dweller? Sponsored by Next Step Goals, LLC Written by Julie O'Keeffe Henzey It's Valentine's Day and I'm sorry, but behind all of those boxes of chocolates and bouquets of flowers are some really annoying people! For example, the guy at the check out counter just had a long conversation with the cashier as he paid for long-stemmed roses, even after glancing back to see that I was waiting with my hands full. Those people are so frustrating! This Valentine's Day, make it your goal to love and accept everyone (even those people ) around you "as is", even if it kills you. Which it won't! Read more.... We are wired to label people as either "in our group or "outside of our group" and to treat them accordingly. To achieve this, we have to look for clues as to whether someone is worthy of membership in our group. Our caveman ancestor would watch a stranger approach his cave and want to know, Is this man going to offer us mastodon meat or...